Thursday, July 16, 2015

6 Simple Ways I've Found Happiness

I feel like I've had the best summer ever, and it's not even finished yet. I wanted to share the 5 things that have made me the happiest these last 6 weeks. 

1.  Waking up early- If you know me, then you know that I like to sleep. A lot. I used to think that the day didn’t actually start until 11am because that was the time I got out of bed to begin my day. As I’ve gotten older, however, I’ve realized that if I wake up at 11am, I will only get about 6 hours of “the day” to be productive before it’s nighttime and I have to start winding down for bed. Despite feeling this way, I wasn’t willing to forgo sleep to wake up earlier. One reason I was sleeping so late was because I would stay up until 2am in an effort to get some quiet time. After my recent yoga retreat, however, I realized that I can get the same quiet between the hours of 6am and 9am. Waking up at 6am also means that the days are longer and I’m more productive. And the final bonus is the great afternoon naps I’ve been having lately.

2.   Spotify- I had Spotify Premium back in grad school, but that was before they’d worked out some of the major issues with the app, so I deleted it and never thought about it again. On a recent drive to Northridge to look at the university, my boyfriend downloaded the app so we could check it out. It wasn’t long after our trip that I decided to give Spotify another shot, and I have to say how much of an essential it’s been to my productivity this summer. In the mornings when I’m doing yoga, I’ll put on a Shavasana playlist, and when I’m writing, I’ll put on something from their Productive Morning playlist. Spotify has become a big part of my summer morning writing routine, and I love it.


3. Our French Press- My boyfriend and I finally got tired of drinking shitty Keurig coffee, so we invested in a French press. Not only are French presses 1/5 of the cost of a Keurig machine, they make incredible coffee. Laying in bed each night, I get excited knowing that when I wake up, I get to have quiet time and a good cup of coffee. 


I especially love drinking out of my badass
Harry Potter mug. Albus Dumbledore is
 a wise wizard

4.   Hiding my cell phone- Visiting Hawaii last month showed me how much I miss when I’m on my phone. When I came back, I didn’t want to become a slave to it again, so whenever I've started feeling like I’m on it too much, I just put it on a shelf or in my nightstand. Having my phone out of sight makes me focus more, and whenever I get an urge to “connect” I have to get up (which usually doesn’t happen because the couch is so comfortable).

5.   Asking for approval-This is a big one for me. Because social media allows us the ability to compare ourselves to friends, family, and strangers, it is not abnormal that people have become insecure. In the past few months, I’ve learned that trying to conform to other people’s expectations is the reason for a lot of my anxiety. Plus, allowing people the right to access your personal life means allowing them the right to comment on and make suggestions about how you should live.

6.   Yoga- Yoga has been a game changer for my mental well-being. Unlike running, yoga allows me to be present and still. Instead of constantly trying to run faster and chase after a new goal, I’ve found that yoga has been teaching me acceptance for the body I bring to my practice, and in turn, I’m slowly starting to learn acceptance for the body and mind I bring into my everyday life.


Thanks for reading! I'd love to hear what you do to stay happy.

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